Author: Kathleen

  • weekend plans

    herbs & spices cross stitch

    I’m on my own with the kids until Sunday evening! I didn’t exactly plan it this way, but it worked out so that we have lots of stuff to do to fill the time. I’m hoping it’ll keep the tantrums to a minimum. Here’s what we have going on.

    Friday afternoon/evening

    • Go for a run before picking up kids (maybe)
    • Meal plan – I usually do this on Saturday but since David’s not around to do the shopping & we’re busy Sunday I want to shop a day early
    • Dinner at Mom & Dad’s house; hopefully do some work on Liam’s stocking while we’re there, and also “shop” their house. My mom has a bunch of old furniture, frames, and other treasures that she’s not currently using and I want to see what I can repurpose. (And check out the awesome framed cross stitch at the top of this post that she found for me! I love it.)

    Saturday

    • Weekly chores – laundry, floors, plant care, spot cleaning counters, tables, & bathrooms
    • Take Liam’s monthly photos
    • Drop Liam off with David’s mom so Meredith & I can run errands which are…
    • Going to Joann’s to pick up some quilt batting and possibly a gift for a kids’ birthday party
    • Target to check out the blenders
    • Grocery store
    • Visiting a friend to check out some natural self care products she is selling
    • Drop Meredith with David’s mom so they can go visit Pappy in the nursing home, probably take Liam back
    • Host my whole family for dinner – a belated Mother’s Day gathering. My dad is grilling!

    Sunday

    • Church
    • Birthday party for my pseudo-niece at The Pink Pokka Dot. It’s a mermaid tea party – going to be soooo adorable.
    • David comes home!
    • Church small group for dinner

    It’s a lot of stuff but I’m really excited about most of it! What do you have going on this weekend?

  • currently

    currently bedside table

    thinking that it might be time to switch to iced coffee in the mornings.

    reading Allegiant…still. It’s just not exciting me so I’m not making time to read. I need to just abandon it or quickly push through.

    re-reading Practicing His Presence. Other than the Bible this book has been the most influential on my spiritual life and from the very first pages I feel deeply moved.

    wanting a blender for smoothies. It doesn’t have to be a nice one, just functioning.

    surprised to find a $50 gift card to Target in my wallet that I haven’t used. How did that happen? Might use it for the blender!

    excited about the new (free!) gym opening up at work. It’s going to be perfect for summer workouts.

    training for a 5k on the 24th. Due to random circumstances (weather, sickness) I haven’t run in over a week so I’m a little nervous about how this is going to go.

    wondering if a Fitbit is a good investment. Everyone seems to love them, but is it something that is worth it in the long run?

    hoping to pick up some quilt batting this weekend since I have a coupon.

    listening to this song on repeat.

    on my own at home until Sunday while my husband goes on a fishing trip with his dad and uncle.

  • project life 2014 : weeks 17 – 18

    This spread is from April 21 to May 4. I am still loving my simple layouts, but I do miss all the playing with paper and supplies that I used to do. That’s why I’ve been thinking so much about trying art journaling lately. I even went so far as to gather some supplies together last weekend. Of course I’ll let you know how that goes if I get around to it. :)

    project life 2014 weeks 17-18

    These were a regular couple of weeks. I love the bottom left photo of us reading at bedtime.

    project life 2014 weeks 17-18

    I also wrote in a bit more detail about the healthy habits I’ve been incorporating, specifically running.

    project life 2014 weeks 17-18

    project life 2014 weeks 17-18

    project life 2014 weeks 17-18

    I just love this photo of the kids. Meredith is so pretty when she’s not doing her cheese face, and Liam’s expression cracks me up.

    project life 2014 weeks 17-18

    Yesterday Meredith and I were home sick recovering from a stomach bug, and although I missed Liam I have to say it was awesome to reconnect with her in that way. Since she wasn’t feeling great she was calm and sweet and I just had a blast playing with her and taking a long nap cuddled next to her. Today we are all feeling better and Liam rolled over from back to front for the first time so things are back to normal!

  • whole person health : spiritual

    spiritual health

    Today I want to start talking about my journey back to spiritual health. I’m not going to get into my faith background and I’m definitely not saying that I have this figured out. I am just your average Christian girl who has a deep love for Jesus but hasn’t been nurturing that relationship. I’ve let it slip to the background, and although it will always be the foundation of my life, if I’m not growing in this area I am falling away.

    I want to be brutally honest for a second: my relationship with God began to suffer once I had kids, and not just because they are so much work and keep me so busy. I mean, I was so grateful for my babies and I prayed for them…sometimes. But not nearly enough. In reality, they became my gods. I began to feel that my life would be worthless without them. They are incredible gifts from God, but they are still his. And how can I raise my kids to know God when I’m not in a good relationship with him? Because I think they’ll be able to tell if I’m faking it.

    One thing that I knew needed to happen was to set aside some time every single day to spend alone with God. When I was on maternity leave my women’s group at church began a Bible study so I joined, and I am happy to say that I completed that study (it took 12 weeks) even though I couldn’t continue going to the weekly meetings once I started work. It was exactly what I needed. Most importantly, I got into the habit of waking up early to make this a priority. If I don’t wake up early before the kids, it’s just not going to happen.

    So when I first get up I make coffee, then I sit down on the couch with my Bible, my study book (if I’m doing one), and my journal. I read and I think and I write and I pray. In my journal I write how the day’s reading has affected me, personal assessments, prayers, or just stream of consciousness. When I have this time, it changes the course of my day.

    I admit though, I haven’t been attempting to wake up early on the weekends. I want to change this, but I do want to say that even with just having my devotionals most weekdays (sometimes kids wake up extra early and foil my plans) I have felt a definite shift in my relationship with God overall. For a long time I’ve been going to church and singing the songs and listening to the sermons and not really feeling much. Now I become emotional almost every week. I crave that worship and learning time and want to feel more of God’s presence.

    I don’t want my spiritual journey to stop here. I’ve been thinking of what else I need to work on and brainstorming ways to keep reminding myself of God throughout the day. Some ideas I have are: intercessory prayer, scripture memory, more worship music, accountability, service, and giving. As I work on these things I’d like to continue to share with you in the future.

    Can anyone out there relate? Have you ever had to take similar steps, and what are some things that have worked for you?

  • around here // real life home edition

    My home is far from where I want it to be, but it’s cozy and in general it makes me happy. It stays pretty clean because I’m a “tidy as you go” kind of person, but nevertheless it’s not usually picture perfect. I decided to take some photos of our most used spaces with evidence of real life in them. I think this is the kind of thing that I will really want to remember down the road, not how everything looked perfectly styled.

    breakfast nook

    This is our only eating table. More often than not you’ll find that cushion on the floor because that’s Meredith’s seat and she hates the cushion.

    counter

    Here is our counter peninsula, aka the dumping ground. I really try to keep it clean but it’s pretty tough. Here you see the day’s mail, preschool artwork, some random toys and candy of Meredith’s, a cup, gum, chocolate bunny from Easter, and papers that need to be taken care of.

    kitchen

    In the kitchen Meredith decided to use her stool as a little table and then abandoned her cup and bowl.

    reading room

    This is the chair I sit in every morning to do my Bible study and reading. I love the low light when I first get up, but this room stays pretty dim all day since there is no overhead light.

    craft room

    The craft room is somewhat organized but totally not decorated and is a mishmash of old furniture. It’s where I keep Liam’s playmat and some other baby toys. I think Meredith brought those hand weights in there; I haven’t been using them lately. She likes to pick them up and say, “too heavy mommy!”

    nursery

    Of course I spend lots of time standing at the changing table right now. I’m adding Liam’s monthly photos underneath Meredith’s first year as he grows. On the table I keep everything I might need out for easy access including a tub of coconut oil, xylitol (we give it to M. before bed for healthy teeth), medicines, sprays, regular and cloth wipes, and essential oils. There is also a teether lying out, a diffuser, and some clothes that Liam has outgrown that I need to put away.

    bedside table

    These four books are constantly on the nightstand because Meredith wants to read them every. single. night before bed. They are good books! But I am so tired of them!

    vanity

    The master bathroom is a good size and has a good layout, but it’s super outdated and is pretty much the last thing on my priority list to update. Here is my little vanity area where I do my makeup.

    bathroom

    And here’s the main sink area. Liam’s tub stays out all the time right now, and kids’ towels are always hanging in there.

    patio

    Our patio and backyard have been so neglected. The dogs tore up any effort we made, so we just gave up other than putting Meredith’s toys out there. I am so excited though; for Mother’s Day David got me some soil and promised his manual labor to whip it back into shape. Next year I hope to have flowers!

    So that’s our home, real life style. Of course I would love to have it beautifully designed and decorated but in actuality that takes a lot of time and money, so we are content to fix it a little at a time. We don’t plan to move (anytime soon, if ever) so we have a long time to get it where we want it to be!