Author: Kathleen

  • Book Club: America America by Ethan Canin

    america-america_lIt’s time to discuss last month’s book club book, America America by Ethan Canin. Which means that it’s time for me to write my first coherent book review. I am daunted by this task, but I will attempt it.

    Let’s start with a basic summary for those of you who haven’t yet read it. America America is the story of Corey Sifter, a teenage boy growing up in smallish town in upstate New York in the early 1970’s. Corey somehow finds himself working as a yard boy for the wealthy, powerful, and beneficent Metarey family, the family that founded the town and made it what it was. The Metareys take him under their wing, and before long he finds himself working on the campaign for Henry Bonwiller, a senator in the running for the Democratic nomination for president. Corey becomes involved with the Metarey daughters as well, and his experiences at this time of his life, during which he is involved in events that are publicized across the nation, end up shaping his entire future.

    Whew. It’s hard to summarize a 460 page book in just a paragraph. Glad that part’s out of the way. Now comes the part where I talk to you about what I thought of the book, the part where I will probably end up rambling, and yes, there will be spoilers.

    The first thing that came to my mind when I started reading this book was how much it reminded me of one of my all-time favorite books, A Prayer For Owen Meany by John Irving. They are both written from a male point of view, both are set in multiple time periods in New England, and both involve politics to some extent. I personally think the writing style in both books is similar, and in both I found myself studying every detail wondering if it would be important later. And what I love about this is that no words are wasted; everything means something.

    There are so many great themes in America America: truth, the greater good, the struggle of the working class, the relationships of parents and their children, and American politics to name a few. But Canin doesn’t hit you over the head with what he wants to say; he subtly illustrates his points perfectly through stories, and he avoids overt partisanship in a highly political book. He has a way of saying things that provides new insight into ideas or thoughts that I have felt on some level but haven’t been able to articulate.

    I really liked this book. I actually would like to read it again at some point (which is saying a LOT for me because I hardly ever re-read) because I know there’s a lot that I missed. I loved the way that it was written in different time periods, so that I learned about Corey’s life on the Metarey estate, his life at college, and his life as a grown man all at once. It made me anticipate what was coming next. I always felt that there was something just beyond my reach, and I just had to keep reading to find out what it was.

    I don’t feel like answering any of the truly “literary” questions that I found, because it makes me feel like I’m in school again. So here are some simple questions I came up with that I’d love to know your answers to if you’ve read the book.

    1. Who was your favorite character?

    Almost all of the characters were likable and relatable, to some extent, which I appreciated. Corey himself was an honest, hardworking, and humble person who made a great narrator. But in my opinion the whole story really hangs around Liam Metarey, and he was my favorite character. I’m pretty sure that was what Canin was going for, and if so I totally fell for it. Simply stated, I felt like I could trust him with my life. That I could count on him for anything. He got himself involved in this questionable political campaign, but he was doing it because of his ideals and what he truly believed in and lived out. I was shocked at his tragic accident and almost didn’t want to finish the book afterwards because I felt a loss of hope.

    2. What do you wish Canin would have written more about?

    I’m a total girl, because I really wanted to read more about Corey and Clara’s relationship and how they ended up married. I also wish we could have learned exactly what happened to JoEllen Charney, but I know that the point was that we can’t always know the truth, and that what people consider the “truth” ends up changing over time.

    3. What do you rate the book and why?

    I give it 4 out of 5 stars. It was a little slow to begin with, but the history of Saline is definitely important later on. Otherwise excellent.

    That’s all I’ve got for now! Hopefully someone out there who has actually read the book appreciates this review. If you have, please comment below and join in the discussion!

    Now the big question that I’m sure you’re dying to know the answer to: what are we reading next month? Well, like everyone else in America, apparently, we are going to be reading The Time Traveler’s Wife by Audrey Niffenegger. Of course we want to read it before watching the movie like the true book lovers we are. We’ll be meeting on AUGUST 30 to discuss the book and watch the movie together, so you can expect a review sometime the first week of September.

    Who’s in??

  • The Best Advice He’s Ever Heard

    David: I heard something really good today. “If you live in the past, you get depressed. If you live in the future, you get anxious. You have to live in the present!” I’m going to start living in the present!

    Me: Yay! Where did you hear that?

    David: Playboy Radio.

    Me: …

    David: It’s not bad, I promise.

  • #16. Find the Perfect Mascara

    In my makeup routine, I have found that the single product that changes the way I look the most is mascara. I like to look natural and fresh, even though we all know that it takes work to look “natural” and not “just-rolled-out-of-bed-greasy-and-rumpled.” So I’ve made it my quest to find the perfect mascara, and then I will buy it and keep buying it no matter the cost.

    Here are a few products that I’ve used in the past, that have made me look for greener grass:

    Too Faced Lash Injection
    Sephora Brand (can’t find a link)
    Mary Kay’s Ultimate mascara
    Maybelline Full ‘N’ Soft
    Bourjuois False Lash Illusion

    I tend to like big, round brushes, but I’m willing to try other things. So the search begins…

    April 23, 2009
    I bought Lorac’s Lotsa Lash brown mascara. First impression: it’s thick and kind of clumpy, and actually takes a lot of work to get my lashes looking decent. It seems almost like it’s old and dry. Pretty sure that this isn’t going to be the one, but I’ll keep using it for awhile since I bought it.

    June 6, 2009
    I couldn’t stand the Lorac, so on a recommendation from my good friend Julie, I bought Almay’s One Coat Lengthening. This mascara is amazingly clean! There is next to no clumping, and it goes on very smooth. The brush is smaller than what I typically like, requiring more brush strokes to apply, but it’s also easy to maneuver. It lasts this way for a few months. The only thing it’s missing is a “wow” factor, which I want to keep looking for. I would have been extremely content to keep using this as it is a great mascara for the money (only $8.19 at drugstore.com)…


    diorshowJuly 20, 2009
    …but then I went to Sephora and bought Dior’s DiorShow mascara. I have to be honest, I’ve used this before. I loved it at the time, but then I read in some article somewhere that mascaras aren’t really that different from each other and therefore it’s an area where we can save money. After that I found it hard to spend the $24, which is a little pricey for my taste. HOWEVER. I now realize that this whole “find the perfect mascara” goal was probably one giant effort by my subconscious to justify going back to the Dior. When I used it again this time, there was an IMMEDIATE and DRAMATIC difference between this and all of the other mascaras I’ve tried in between (see above). Diorshow is thick, lush, and my lashes are noticeably longer when I use it. Be careful though; it’s powerful. If I smudge on my eyelid it’s a bit of a mess to clean up. Totally worth it though.

    I’m considering this goal met. I had begun to think that my lashes could never look like this, and behold, they do! This quest wasn’t a “get the most for your money” type of thing, though, so if anyone out there has any recommendations for me that will allow me to achieve a similar look as the Dior for less money, by all means share!

  • Want To Join Our Book Club?

    I think I’ve mentioned before that I’m in a book club with a few of my friends. There are three of us that founded it over three years ago, and we’ve had members come and go but currently there are five. I like the small group because it allows for good discussion and flexibility, but we’re always open to new members. This book club is something I’m extremely proud of and it makes me very happy.

    We meet approximately once a month. At each meeting we usually have a meal, catch up about life, chat about the book, then pick a new book for the next month and set a meeting date. It’s great.

    I would like to extend the conversation to you all out there. After each meeting I have in real life, I’ll post some thoughts about the book, possibly pose some questions, and let you know what the book is for next month. You can read along with me and post your thoughts in the comments.

    If you’re curious about what kinds of books we read, be my friend on Goodreads and view my category “bookclub”. I have them all listed. In general, it’s mostly historical and contemporary fiction along with some classics.

    Is anyone interested in this kind of thing? Obviously, you won’t have to read every book if you don’t have time. There might be some months when no one reads along with me, and I’ll be okay with that. I just want to share the love. Our next meeting is next Tuesday and we’ll be discussing the book America America by Ethan Canin. It’s a good one, so if you think you can finish it in a week, go for it. :)

    Please, please, please let me know your thoughts, and share this with anyone you think might be interested!

  • Just Enjoying Life, Is All

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    This picture makes me happy. I took it this afternoon.

    I’ve been enjoying the time I’ve created for myself since I last wrote. For example, I finished the book I was reading for book club, read a short story, and got through a couple of chapters of another book I’m working on. I cooked dinner for David and my parents, and it was good. While my mom and I walked the dogs, the men did some maintenance on my car. That was good too. I went to my cousin’s son’s first birthday party, watched a little TV with David, saw Harry Potter, cleaned the house. Worked some long and tough hours, then ate a huge brownie. Not all in one day.

    I haven’t exercised much, but that’s okay.

    I feel obligated to mention the goals I’ve completed lately as well. The meal I cooked for my parents was the fourth meal in four weeks, goal #2. It was enchilada casserole. I’ll put up the recipe sometime. I wear a pedometer at work now, goal #11. Apparently I walk between 3-4 miles while there. And part of the above mentioned maintenance on my car was new windshield wipers, goal #98.

    I was going to run errands today, but I don’t feel up to it anymore. Instead I think I’ll cuddle up next to Cleo and read. Then when the sun starts to go down I’ll put on my running shoes and go for a jog. Shower, sleep. Wake up for another beautiful summer day tomorrow.

    Life is good, you know?