Author: Kathleen

  • Getting Things Done

    Oh my gosh. Stuff is happening, people. For starters, I graduated. After a longish boring ceremony, they finally announced, “You may now move your tassels from the right to the left,” and a shiver went down my spine. It was a very special moment. Then we sang “The Eyes of Texas,” and it was over. Yay me!

    Only one more hurdle to jump before I am an official RN. I have to pass the NCLEX, the state board exam. I scheduled it for June 11 at 8 a.m. I am nervous, and really need to kick the studying up a notch. To that end I am taking another review course this week. In fact, it is going on right this moment. Perhaps I should be paying attention instead of blogging?

    Our save-the-date magnets arrived in the mail, and I do like them except that I wish the brown was darker. I spent some time addressing them last night and I hope to have them out by the end of the week. But what I am most excited about is that we actually booked our honeymoon to Kauai, airfare, hotel, car rental and all. So really, the most important part is taken care of, right?

  • Pinning

    The pinning ceremony is a nursing tradition. Nurses wear pins (usually on their name badge at work) to identify what school they graduated from. These pins were presented to us at the ceremony last night and we were able to choose someone to pin us. I chose David, as my husband-to-be.

    But before all of that happened, my parents, David, and I all arrived waaaay early because we didn’t know how the traffic would be. So we decided to get some picture-taking out of the way:

    And for some reason I find this very amusing: my mom trying to take a picture of David and me without realizing that the camera was set to record. Obviously I don’t have much patience for this, but David just laughs.

    Soon enough my brothers arrived. At this point we were also sharing the table with another family, a family much quieter than ours. As we were waiting for our food, we had the following conversation.

    ***

    Dad: So Uncle David is getting another Ridgeback. They got a good deal on it because it doesn’t have the show-quality ridge. They’re naming it Rigby.

    Brother David: Like Eleanor Rigby?

    Me: Who is Eleanor Rigby?

    Dad (shocked): Kat! David Cook just sang it on American Idol!

    Me: So she’s a singer?

    Dad (even more shocked): Kat! It’s a song by The Beatles!

    Brothers (in unison): AHHHH LOOK AT ALL THE LONELY PEOPLE

    Me: I have never heard of it. [This is true. I listened to it later.]

    Dad: I can’t believe this.

    Me: Listen, I am not a Beatles fan. I don’t dislike them, I will listen to them, but there are so many other things that I would rather hear.

    ***

    My future mother-in-law will be devastated when she reads this, but there it is. My confession.

    Continuing with the evening, we waited quite a long time for our food. In fact, David and I were finished with the whole pinning ordeal before we even took a bite. Ah, what the heck, here’s a little video of me being pinned.

    So by the time we got to eat we were all ravenous. We promptly cleaned our plates, and my brother Barry asked for seconds, which I don’t think was part of the deal. After he got his request, though, we discovered that we could all just go help ourselves to seconds, even though no one else was doing so. One woman that we were sitting with offered Barry her roll, but he politely declined. A minute or two later, this happened.

    ***

    Dad (to stranger woman): My wife would like your roll.

    Mom: Chris! (She hides her face in her hands.) I am SO embarrassed. You were not supposed to say that!

    Dad: What? You wanted it!

    Stranger woman: I did offer.

    ***

    I like how my family is the noisy one that eats all the food along with other people’s. I think we have more fun.

    So now I am pinned. Tonight, I graduate!

  • Wedding Update

    For those of you who are following, it is now approximately five months until my wedding. I figured I’d give you an update every once in awhile about it for those of you who are interested.

    At this point I really haven’t done a whole lot more, but things are moving along slowly. Hopefully the planning process will pick up now that I’m done with school. What I have done since I last wrote about this:

    1. Chose the color scheme – brown and light blue.
    2. Met with the photographer that I want, although I have yet to get my parents to pay the deposit to book her for sure.
    3. Ordered save-the-date magnets. I wish I could show you what they look like, but I am having a hard time converting my proof into a format that will upload how I want it to.
    4. Decided on a honeymoon destination – Hawaii! Specifically, Kauai. I AM SO EXCITED ABOUT THIS AND I WISH WE WERE THERE NOW.

    Hmm, I thought that I had done more but I guess not. There is still SO much to do…ah, well, it’ll get done somehow.

  • scripted

    Last night I totally came home and watched Dancing with the Stars, Gossip Girl, AND The Hills. I don’t know what came over me, but I have to say that it was fun.

    I was watching with my roommate Amanda and her friend Lilly, who is loud and hilarious. Everything is better when you watch it with her. When it was time to watch The Hills, we discovered that something went wrong with the DVR and it failed to capture the sound. We were determined to view the episode, so we turned on the captions. This inevitably led to us acting out the parts in each scene, and we even sang the theme song. I call it TV Karaoke.

    If you’re bored, I highly recommend this activity. Especially with The Hills. It is an entirely different viewing experience.

  • A Poem, A Prayer

    I’m not really into the whole poetry scene, but a certain style of it I do like, and this one touched me so I wanted to pass it along.

    Prayer
    beginning with four lines
    from Taha Muhammad Ali

    If, over this world, there’s a ruler
    who holds in his hand bestowal and seizure,

    I turn in prayer, asking him
    to decree for the hour of my demise

    that it be a morning on Lake Keowee,
    in early spring when the bloodroot

    and yellow violet are in bloom in the woods
    beyond us, a ghost of fog moving slowly,

    almost imperceptibly, across the grey water.

    And I ask that it be after a long trip,
    after I have seen my grandmother, my brother,

    after I have looked upon the face of a niece
    I’ve never seen, after I have said to my father

    what I need to say to my father, whatever
    that may be then, and on the morning on the lake,

    may I be on the dock with my beloved,
    tossing bits of biscuit to the fish, rising

    from the green depths like memories–and
    across the lake the sound of two geese

    calling to one another.

    Ed Madden