Category: books & reading

  • pregnancy hormones in full effect

    So I cried at work yesterday. A lot. It was ugly. I tried to pull myself together in the bathroom but someone even came knocking on the door to make sure I was okay. And then I kept crying off and on for about an hour and just could not stop it. My mascara was gone and my eyes were puffy. I hope I didn’t scare anyone.

    The deal was, I had a rude patient. Rationally I knew that it was nothing personal to me (because I hadn’t done anything wrong and was nothing but nice) and I dug deep for sympathy and understanding because I know she is in a beyond stressful situation. Anything I told myself didn’t help though; I just kept crying. So embarrassing.

    Happy ending though! Today she emailed the doctor’s office and asked them to tell me that she thinks I’m an excellent nurse and she knows she gave me a hard time yesterday. It’s the closest to an apology I’m likely to get so I’ll take it.

    Also, last night I cooked dinner. Made BBQ beef taquitos and they were good. I also finally made the breakfast sandwiches I’d been meaning to and they were also good, so double win there. And I showered! And bathed Meredith! I am a domestic goddess!

    I need to switch subjects real quick because I am having a hard time with  my book club book, Flight Behavior by Barbara Kingsolver and I just have to talk about it. The first problem I’m having is that I’ve been reading A Clash of Kings (which is the second in the Game of Thrones series) and I’m totally addicted to it and I’m to the last hundred pages and it’s fast-paced and all I want to do is finish it. So I’m kind of resentful of any book that interrupts that right now. Also, apparently this book is about climate change, and even if I was passionate about that subject I’m skeptical that it will make for an interesting story. Currently I’m only two chapters in and there’s been a lot about the difficulties of farming and I don’t know, it’s not grabbing me. And I have to finish it by Sunday! Sigh.

    Anyway. I go to the doctor for a checkup tomorrow. Praying that all is well in the baby department.

  • what i read : april to june 2013

    So I’ve still been reading, and here’s what I read and what I thought.

    A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller: Although this isn’t my favorite of Donald Miller’s books I still appreciated so many things about it. I love his writing style and even when he seems like he’s just rambling I enjoy it. I have never really thought of my life in terms of a story and it was helpful to think about what makes a good one and how that can apply to real life. The anecdotes were great, some of them extremely touching. It was also a fast and easy read. (3 stars)

    Bittersweet by Shauna Niequist: I have never read Shauna’s blog and I don’t remember how I ended up with this book but I know it was given to me. I was in the mood for a memoir so I picked it up, and I enjoyed it. The chapters are kind of random and don’t exactly follow any kind of order, so in that way I felt like I was reading a series of long blog posts. I don’t think I liked that part, but everything did follow a theme and I found myself tearing up many times throughout. I think the one main feeling I had when I finished, and probably the one thing I will think about when I remember this book, is that it encouraged me to look for community and to foster relationships intentionally. (3 stars)

    Wild by Cheryl Strayed: This is not a short book, and I have a job and a toddler, but I still managed to read it in less than two days. That’s how good it is. I don’t know if the author and I would be friends in real life, but I liked her and admired her for her honesty and her courage. Her story was inspiring. It made me want to do something brave. (5 stars)

    Matched by Ally Condie: This was a YA dystopia that was an easy & fast read. The world and plot were compelling enough and I am interested to see what happens. The writing is simple and straightforward with short sentences which seems to be the norm for this genre. My problem was with the characters. I didn’t feel like they were developed at ALL. There was a love triangle, but I honestly couldn’t care which guy she chose because they were both fine, and one was quickly friend-zoned so the romantic tension fell flat in that area. Overall I thought it was average for the genre, although I would read the next one to find out what happens. (3 stars)

    Abhorsen by Garth Nix: Only the perfect conclusion to one of my now all-time favorite series. And seriously, the audiobook, narrated by Tim Curry, is amazing. This was supremely satisfying and I recommend the whole trilogy starting with Sabriel. (audiobook, 5 stars)

    The Accidental Tourist by Anne Tyler: This is a very heavily character-driven book, so if you need a fast-paced plot to keep you interested this isn’t for you. But I loved it. It was a book club choice and I was super worried when I read that it was about a man recovering from his son’s death because I tend to become an emotional wreck faced with tragedies happening to children. But the book starts about a year after the death and for some reason that softened the blow. Of course there were some emotional parts, but the focus wasn’t on the tragedy, it was on the character of Macon Leary: who he was and who he became in the wake of it. I say it focused on Macon, and that’s true, but ALL of the characters are amazingly clear. His two brothers, sister, boss, the woman he meets after his wife leaves him…even the dog is a character all his own. I laughed and I cried, truly. It was such an enjoyable read. (4 stars)

    Happier at Home by Gretchen Rubin: Her first book The Happiness Project was almost revolutionary to me and so inspiring. This wasn’t exactly the same but very close. It felt too similar to the first to grab me the same way, but I did get ideas. (3 stars)

    Garden Spells by Sarah Addison Allen: It’s been a long time since I read a book like this, just completely light and feel-good. It was just what I needed at the moment and made me happy. (4 stars)

    A Wizard of Earthsea by Ursula K. LeGuin: A new fantasy series that was recommended to me and was quite interesting. The first half reminded me so much of another book but then everything changed and I got into it more. She developed a really great character that made me want to know what he would do with his life. (audiobook, 4 stars)

    Girl With a Pearl Earring by Tracy Chevalier: This was fine. Just fine. It was historical fiction and I did appreciate the writing in that descriptions of a maid’s lifestyle and all the mundane tasks didn’t bore me. I wouldn’t say it was a romance even though there were hints of it. Probably a little disappointing for what I wanted out of it, but it was fine. (3 stars)

    Unafraid by Francine Rivers: I read this for a church book club; I was supremely touched by the content of it and it made me think about the life of Jesus on earth as I never have before. The writing is average though – I have read better from this author. (3 stars)

    The Tombs of Atuan by Ursula K. LeGuin: This was the second of the Earthsea books. It had an entirely different protagonist and the wizard that we came to love in the first book didn’t show up until partway through. I enjoyed the new setting but the first half of the book was starting from scratch with character- and world-building. It really picks up with his appearance though. (4 stars)

    A Game of Thrones by George R.R. Martin: Who doesn’t know what this is about by now? I am personally totally hooked on the story and am going through withdrawals as I wait for the next audiobook to be available from the library. I liked it from the beginning but it took until about halfway for me to really feel pulled in. I am sure that I will continue with the entire series even though it’s forever long. (audiobook, 4 stars)

  • virtual bible study

    sevenAnyone up for a virtual Bible study? I’d love to try one. My church isn’t currently running one and I’d love the accountability and discussion that comes with a small group that is reading and studying the same thing. I thought I would throw this idea out there to see if there is any interest.

    The study I’m proposing is Jen Hatmaker’s 7: An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess. I was browsing the bookstore and it called out to me; I thumbed through it and I felt a very strong pull to buy it, so I did. It is 8 weeks long, so I’m thinking that we’ll meet virtually using Google hangout each weekend to chat about the previous chapter.

    So, are you interested? Have any thoughts or suggestions? If you want to get in on this or stay updated make sure I have your email address and I’ll send out an email in the next week or so.

    And if no one is up for it, well, that’s cool too. :)

  • what i read : january to march 2013

    The Passage by Justin Cronin: Characters, plot, suspense, relationships, action, science, this book has it. And every once in awhile a gem of a bit of prose will pop out at you. I am seriously invested in what happens to these people now. (5 stars)

    Moby-Dick by Herman Melville: I was seriously reluctant to read this because I thought it would be majorly boring. It wasn’t though! Really! It was funny, and passionate, and enlightening. There were some boring parts about whales but I am totally glad I read it and enjoyed the process thoroughly. (4 stars)

    The Name of the Wind by Patrick Rothfuss: Yeah okay, I guess this was pretty good. But I don’t know, it took me almost 40% of the way in to really get interested in the story. And I still don’t really care all that much about the larger mystery for some reason. Since this is a series nothing really resolved, so I am somewhat interested in what happens, but I don’t know if it’s enough to get me to read the rest because of course they are loooooong. (audiobook, 3 stars)

    A Gate at the Stairs by Lorrie Moore: I was chugging along just fine through this book – it wasn’t what I expected (which was something light; why don’t I do more research before starting to read?) and I had very little feelings whatsoever about it, other than some vague thoughts about motherhood and adoption and how the 20-year-old narrator seemed a little too think-y to be realistic – and then 3/4 of the way through an event so emotional happened that my heart could hardly handle it and I wanted to do violent things to the book and forget it existed. The more I think about it the more I dislike it. (2 stars)

    A Good American by Alex George: Read and reviewed for BlogHer book club. (3 stars)

    Where’d You Go, Bernadette? by Maria Semple: This was just extremely entertaining to read. A unique format made it quick and interesting. There’s a small element of mystery but it’s mostly a story of an eccentric family. It’s funny, touching, and even the ridiculous characters have redeeming qualities. Thoroughly enjoyed. (4 stars)

    The Fault in Our Stars by John Green: There were a lot of funny, uplifting moments and it had excellent writing, and the characters were great, but come on, it’s about teens with cancer. I avoided reading it for a long time for just that reason, but I finally caved for book club and that’s how I found myself crying mightily on my drive to work, trying not to ruin my mascara, wanting to turn it off but being unable, and then facing the work day (where I’m a nurse for cancer patients) severely depressed. It was a good book, I just wish I hadn’t read it. (audiobook, 4 stars)

    Katherine by Anya Seton: This is a new favorite. It kind of wrecked me. From the very beginning the characters were interesting, or funny, or likeable, the story was deep and captivating, the romance swept me up, the historical background was fascinating, and I just loved it all okay? Except toward the end a lot of tragic things start happening and I was really worried for awhile because I just could not even handle it if things didn’t turn out well, so I skipped ahead and read the afterword and it made me cry from happiness right there, and then later that night I stayed up late to finish it (which I never do because SLEEP) and I could not stop crying, from happiness and also because of all the tragedy that led to the eventual happiness and why did they have to go through all that? (5 stars)

  • let’s pretend this never happened

    bookI listened to Jenny Lawson’s hilarious and crazy memoir a few months ago on audiobook that I borrowed from the library, and I immediately knew I would love to feature it for BlogHer book club.

    A little background – Jenny is the author of the popular blog The Bloggess, and honestly I had never followed it before she wrote this book. But I started seeing a lot of positive reviews across the interwebs, and since I’m always looking for light and funny audiobooks, I gave it a try. Oh man. It’s a trip. She says she’s saved the best stories of her life for this book, and many of them really are hard to believe. At times I was just open-mouthed in shock. (But in a good way.)

    I am not a big humor connoisseur, I mean I like it but I don’t seek out funny stuff and I’m one of those people who will just say, “that’s funny” instead of laughing. So with that in mind I’ll say that I found this as funny and interesting as anything I’ve ever read. And now that I think back over it I realize that it deals with heavy issues like poverty, infertility, and mental illness yet it’s not depressing in the least. Jenny just deals with them effectively and shows that she’s learned to cope with it and find the humor in everything.

    Of course I have to give warning about this book too. She herself says that she will probably offend you at some point when you read it, and for most people that’s probably true. Either with her language (yes there is way more profanity and discussion of…lady parts than I generally prefer in a book) and the subject matter can get touchy. Like I said, she uses humor in pretty much every situation, and that means she will probably make light of something that you don’t appreciate.

    Anyway, after I read the book I started following her blog and because of the book I feel like I know her, especially because she narrated the audiobook herself. When I read the book this time it was a paperback version and although the experience of reading it is different, her voice comes through just as clear. There was also a bonus chapter which holds a journal of her first book tour, and it’s a lot like her blog which contains short snippets and conversations.

    So basically, if you can stand some profanity and crazy subject matter, you definitely want to read this one. It’s just really, really funny.

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    This is a paid review for BlogHer Book Club but the opinions expressed are my own.