Category: blog

  • reader survey results

    It took me awhile, but I was finally able to sit down and sort through the answers to my first ever reader survey. Today I want to share the results with you, what I’ve learned, and how it will affect my blogging in the future.

    First of all, I want to sincerely thank those of you who took the time to do this for me. I think the main thing I took away from the whole thing is that although I may have a small-ish number of readers, you are loyal and awesome and constructive and sweet. Many of you took the time to leave me encouragement and there wasn’t a single harsh or rude word written. Yay!

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    So, duh – we are mostly women around here! I am actually pretty sure that the only men who read my blog are my dad and my brother-in-law. Maaaybe my brothers every once in awhile and my husband even more rarely than that. :) Almost all of you are within the ages of 26-44 which makes sense because I fall in the middle at 32.

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    Most of you are married with 1-2 kids, but a good chunk aren’t parents yet. Hopefully there is enough non-kiddo stuff around here to keep you interested!

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    I’m not surprised to see Texas represented so heavily in my readers, because I have a lot of offline friends that read. And I was happy to see readers from all over the nation and some other countries represented as well! So fun.

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    Most of you identify as Christian, as I do. Lately I have felt pulled to write more about my faith and I hope, for those of you who don’t share it, that you will enjoy getting to know this side of me and that something may resonate with you.

    Now let’s talk blogging!

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    Almost half of you are bloggers yourself, and most of you discovered my site through a link from another blogger. Thanks bloggers! You’re awesome. Most of you use a feed reader, but a lot of you just come straight to the site.

    I was happily surprised at how often you all visit! I post six times per week now, and many of you read each post or at least visit at least a few times a week. That’s so nice to see. I consider reading even once a week to be often, with all that is going on in our busy lives!

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    Okay, so this was the part that was most interesting to me. I asked you to choose your one favorite type of post, and by far the most common answer was family & motherhood. I don’t know why I was so surprised by this; I guess I thought that no one cared that much about our family life or that those kinds of posts are boring for people who aren’t me. But now that I think about it, that is our biggest shared experience and I do love reading about other people’s daily lives. So I will definitely continue writing about mine!

    Goal setting was another popular choice (yay! I love goals and goal-oriented projects), as was reflection & inspiration. I’ve been making an effort to do more “real” writing here so I’m glad you like reading that kind of thing.

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    And finally, these are the other types of posts you enjoy. Project Life updates are the least popular, which I understand. My spreads have all been very similar recently. Since some of you like them, I plan to continue posting them for now, but I’m going to rethink my process going forward next year (maybe monthly updates?).

    The two other categories that stood out to me were Things I Love and Books & Reading. These were highly rated, but I haven’t been posting about them very often! I’m excited to throw more posts into the mix about this stuff.

    That’s the data, but y’all also left me some super sweet comments. The most common sentiments were that you love the variety of post types, and you appreciate me being authentic. Every time I read a comment saying those things it warmed my heart because I love posting all different types of things (and those are my favorite types of blogs to read, too) and it’s very important to me to be able to share my real self here. I’m a very open person and I love finding points of connection with other women. I believe we should celebrate each other’s successes and help bear burdens. I’ve made real, true friends through this space and so it’s more than just a hobby I love or something that can make me a few bucks every now and then.

    Anyway, I’m the kind of person that is constantly re-evaluating and tweaking things, and I’m always trying to make my blog better. Again, thank you so much for your input; this has been incredibly helpful to me as I plan the future of my blog!

  • blogging plans and a reader survey

    If you are reading via email or in a feed reader, please click through to the site today! Thank you!

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    Having so fond an affection for you, we were well-pleased to impart to you not only the gospel of God but also our own lives, because you had become very dear to us. –1 Thessalonians 2:8

    It may sound strange, but when I read those words in my Bible study this week I thought about this blog. Sometimes blogging feels like such a solitary activity, a lot of work for little return, at low points even a waste of time. Sometimes it is hard to open up and be vulnerable. It can be scary to share life. But that is what I’ve decided to do, and for me it is worth it.

    It’s worth it because of the connections I’ve made; I consider many of you real friends. It’s worth it because sometimes when you talk about the hard things, you help another person who must face a similar situation. It’s worth it because of the mutual support and encouragement and inspiration we bring to each other in spaces like this.

    What I’m meaning to say is that those of you who keep reading: you have become very dear to me.

    I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about and behind-the-scenes work on my blog lately. It’s a big part of my life, and since I’ve decided to keep it that way and I have the support of my family, I want to do the best job I can with it. I don’t know if you’ll notice any huge changes (yet) but I want to get to know you better for sure.

    It will mean so much to me if you take a few minutes to fill out the reader survey below. The results will help me immensely to improve my content and direction here. I will also be thrilled if you leave a comment – especially if you never have before. Connecting with people is my favorite!

    Thank you so much, friends.

    Update: the survey is now closed. Thank you to all who participated!

  • why i want to blog more, not less

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    You may have noticed that for the past six weeks or so, I’ve been blogging every week day instead of my previous 2-3 times per week. I’ve always wanted to try a more frequent blogging schedule, and now that I have a little extra time in my days I thought I would give it a shot.

    I’ve been second guessing my decision though. Every time I read a post about why someone is deciding to step back from blogging as often, or as personally, or at all, I think, “Should I be doing this? Am I wasting my time?” I also question whether or not I’ll be able to keep up with this; not that it matters to anyone if I don’t, but I’d like to be consistent.

    So I’ve thought about it. And even though things might change and I might not be able to keep up with this, I’ve decided that I want to keep blogging more, not less. These are my reasons why:

    1. Blogging is a constant creative outlet for me. I stay very busy, and I don’t have the right kind of dedicated time to work on most of the creative projects that I enjoy doing with my hands. But my life would be much poorer if I could only be creative every couple of weeks. Blogging is a creative process for me, and I am constantly composing posts in my head before I actually get to the writing part. So I find the whole thing very enriching in that way.

    2. Blogging is an excellent form of memory keeping. This is so important to me. Even though I do Project Life and keep a small journal, they don’t capture everything. There are so many times that I’ve gone back to read old blog posts and it’s just fascinating to remember the things I wrote about.

    3. My blogging friends are real friends. I know I could make online friends just as easily (or better) through Twitter and Instagram – and I have. But for me it all started with my blog because it offers a deeper insight than 140 characters allows. And personally, I still read the blogs of my friends even when I don’t have time to keep up with Twitter.

    4. I just love blogging. I don’t know what it is about it exactly, but it’s so fun for me. I’ve thought about what life would be like if I gave it up, and that makes me sad. It’s a gut thing. So as long as it stays enjoyable and isn’t detracting from the important areas of my life, I’m going to keep doing it.

    I’m NOT blogging more to grow my readership, make money, or eventually try to make a career of it. For now I really believe that blogging will (and should) always be a hobby for me. I enjoy being able to do a sponsored post here and there, but if I were to have to do it as a job it would instantly lose its appeal. I blog because I like it, and that’s it.

  • Back to Blogging

    It’s been a couple of months since I’ve been blogging regularly, and it was a much needed break for me, but I’m ready to jump back into it. For better or for worse, blogging is a part of me and I have a connection to this space and to many of you that will stay with me forever.

    The break served its purpose though – I fulfilled all of the goals I set out to accomplish with it. Yay! I also caught up on some crafting, read many books, started precepting a new hire at work, got a lot of sleep, spent some extra time with my family, and went on vacation for a week to visit some of my best friends.

    If you haven’t checked out my new design yet, I’d love it if you click through and look around. My goal with this redesign was to above all keep things simple and clean, navigable, and suited to my taste. I rewrote my “about” page, placed links to some of my most common categories in the sidebar, and included a page on motherhood with drop-down sub-categories on the top menu.

    This will always be a personal blog, therefore what you can expect from it is stories and updates from my life (and motherhood is a big part of that), but also things that interest me. I intend to begin incorporating more craft & style posts, continue with periodic book reviews, and with the new year I want to get back into the habit of making monthly goals and start some personal challenges.

    At the beginning of November I’m excited to kick off a monthly post series that combines paper crafting with list making, and I’m happy that a few blogging friends are going to join me. It will be something that anyone can join, but if it sounds fun and you want to get in on it at the beginning, send me an email and I’ll give you the details. Full explanation to come in two weeks though.

    It’s good to be back friends. I’ve been kind of MIA on social media as a whole, so I’m looking forward to getting caught up with you all. If I missed anything big in your life, please let me know. :)

    Talk soon!

  • Friday Things

    I’m home today because last night, after a lovely evening at my in-laws’ house for dinner where I got to read uninterrupted for something like thirty minutes and Meredith played outside, and after she fell asleep all cuddled up to me in bed, Meredith lost her dinner four times all over the sheets, herself, and me. Then this morning after a 3:30 a.m. nursing session she repeated the experience. Something new for the baby book! Meredith’s first vomit!

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    In the blog revamp arena, I’ve been going back through my archives from the beginning to edit and update old posts. A few thoughts:

    >I like me from 5 years ago. And I miss my friends & roommates from that time a LOT.

    >It’s soooo weird to read about about David as my boyfriend. Feels like we’ve been married forEVER.

    >I would write posts with, like, one sentence in them. Obviously this was before Twitter.

    >The focus of my writing has changed a ton, just like I have changed. I like where it’s headed now, but back then I used to put more effort into writing about everyday stuff. Sometimes it was boring, but sometimes it was really funny or insightful.

    Also, I’m super excited that I hooked my brother, the actual web designer, into coming over in a couple weeks to redo my design. Either he felt guilty when he read my last post, or he shuddered to think about the outcome of me designing my own blog. Anyway, it isn’t going to happen unless I’m there in person supervising and forcing him to work, so I got him on the calendar!

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    Things I’m succeeding at lately: work (i.e. being a great nurse and not getting overwhelmed there), getting lots of sleep, brainstorming creative ideas, keeping in touch with friends, spending time with family, not spending extra money even though I really really want to, reading, keeping the house basically clean and decluttered.

    Things that aren’t going so well: cooking, carving out child-free time with David, finding time to work on anything creative, social media, taking pictures, eating healthy, any kind of exercising, my spiritual discipline.

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    Meredith is taking an epic nap right now so maybe I can use what’s left of it to AT LEAST do a little something fun.