Category: motherhood

  • liam at five months

    liam five months

    He:

    >Has become pretty vocal! I guess he realized that he has to make himself heard around here.

    >Had a pretty bad diaper rash for about two weeks before I finally realized it was fungal and the new cream kicked in. Now it has improved a lot but is still stubbornly hanging on. (Side note: ask for recommendations for diaper rash on Facebook and you will get more comments than all of your other posts combined. It was awesome.)

    >Grabs himself (you know what I mean) constantly during diaper changes. At first I just thought he was itchy, but now I think it’s a boy thing.

    >Loves his feet. And I love the adorable little bundle he becomes when he’s holding them.

    >Kind of plays with toys now; at least he will grab at them and put them in his mouth.

    >Has no problem being passed around from person to person. As long as he’s being held, he’s usually happy.

    >Probably wants to go to sleep earlier every evening than he gets to. We can’t juggle two different bedtimes though, so he deals with it.

    >Isn’t very good at sitting up yet. In the Bumbo he still slumps to the side and his legs get stuck and he just doesn’t seem to enjoy it in general.

    >Doesn’t always care for these photoshoots.

    liam five months

    liam five months

    I:

    >Get really overdramatic and anxious from time to time that I’m missing his babyhood when Meredith is in her needy moods. There are times when I feel like I barely hold him for days except to nurse. But she’s been better lately about letting me hold him, and I am glad that her phases are usually short-lived.

    >Have learned the secret to drinking more water, and it’s a cup with a straw. I’ve really been able to get nearly 64 oz a day down easily since making this discovery, and I think my milk supply has increased too!

    >Feel incredibly accomplished every time I trim the kids’ fingernails. Doesn’t matter if everything else is a wreck, I feel so much better whenever they’re cut.

    >Really hope to cut back on Meredith’s sugar intake and not make the same mistakes with Liam. Now that I know more about it, we are going to phase out the sugary, carby snacks and eat more real food at home.

    >Am still in denial about our whole sleeping situation aka the family bed. It’s fine, we all sleep, but it can’t go on forever and I don’t even know where to start to change it.

    >Can’t believe that Liam is bigger than Meredith was at this age. The stats say so, but in comparing the photos she just looks SO much chubbier.

    liam five months

    liam five months

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    Meredith at 5 months

  • meredith lately

    meredith 5/31/14

    meredith 5/31/14

    Me: I’m going to make a bagel.
    Meredith: and put butter and jelly on it?
    Me: yeah
    Meredith: don’t say yeah, say yes ma’am.

    After jumping on her mini trampoline and falling down on purpose…
    Grammy: Kaboomie!
    Meredith: I wanna go kaboobie again!

    While driving and David and I are attempting an adult conversation in the front seat…
    Meredith: mommy mommy mommy mommy mommy MOMMY MOMMY!
    Me: yes Meredith?
    Meredith: Daddy driving.
    Me: yes he is.
    We return to talking…
    Meredith: mommy mommy mommy mommy mommy MOMMY MOMMY!
    Me: yes??
    Meredith: um…bird poop on yours car!

    David: say sand.
    Meredith: sand.
    David: say wich.
    Meredith: wich.
    David: say sandwich.
    Meredith: finjer!

    Commenting on what she and David brought home from the store…
    Meredith: I got toilet paper for yours butt!

    meredith 5/31/14

    meredith 5/31/14

    While David took her browsing the bookstore in the true crime section…
    Meredith: you need Bible study.

    On our way to church small group…
    Me: are you excited that your friend Caleb from church is going to be at your school tomorrow?
    Meredith: oh! There’s two Kaylas!
    Me: 
    no, this is Ca-le-BUH. With a “B” on the end.
    Meredith: 
    CaleBUH.
    Me: 
    right.
    Meredith: 
    Kayla and Arriya my best friends.
    Me:
    that’s so sweet.
    Meredith: 
    Arriya-BUH.
    Me: 
    no Meredith, your friends Arriya and Kayla are at school, then your friend Caleb from church is going to be there tomorrow. He is the only one with the BUH on his name and whose house we are going to now.
    Meredith: 
    (pauses) Aria-BUH!
    Me: 
    (sighs)

    While “helping” me make dinner…
    Meredith: I yours little helper!
    Me: that’s right, you’re my best helper. Liam doesn’t help does he?
    Meredith: no and daddy doesn’t help.
    Me: 

    While I was holding her…
    Meredith: (grabbing my boobs and looking in my shirt) whoa! Look at those nursers!

    meredith 5/31/14

    meredith 5/31/14

  • motherhood pen pals

    motherhood pen pals

    Back when I was pregnant with Meredith I read the book Great With Child by Beth Ann Fennelly. I loved it so much, and it remains my favorite “parenting” book although it’s so much more than that. It’s a series of letters that the mother of a preschooler wrote to her former student while the student was pregnant and living in a place where she didn’t know anyone and didn’t have any support. The letters are true and honest and also beautiful and poetic. After I read the book I wanted desperately to write real letters again, and I tried to cultivate a pen pal but it never really worked out.

    Fast forward to last year when my friend Maggie was pregnant with her first baby boy. I knew right away that I had to give her that book. Her son is almost six months old now and much to my surprise and delight she emailed me telling me how much she loved the book and asking if we could be motherhood pen pals. Apparently it had the same effect on her. :) So now, even though we live twenty minutes away from each other and are connected in so many digital ways, we are taking the time to hand write pages of thoughts and feelings about our lives as mothers. It’s exciting and slow and therapeutic and amazing.

    And who doesn’t love an excuse to buy some cute stationery? ;)

  • liam at four months

    liam 4 months

    He:

    >Laughs! Sometimes! Well…he’s done it a few times anyway.

    >Also smiles at anyone that looks him in the face.

    >Wears 6-9 month clothes, but is in between the small and medium diaper sizes, so he tends to leak at the moment. I have to send at least three pairs of pants with him each day just in case.

    >Still has the bump on his head from his cephalohematoma. Supposedly it will reabsorb eventually, but it’s going very slowly. I like to rub it.

    >Loves the mirror.

    >Can roll over both ways (mobility is coming)!!

    >Is a squirmer.

    >Constantly has his hands in his mouth, but he hasn’t started producing too much drool yet.

    >Sleeps well almost every night to the point where if he doesn’t I get worried about his health.

    >Has such a great old man hairline.

    liam 4 months

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    I:

    >Am trying to get Liam to attach to a lovey, just because I think it’s cute. And he does seem a little calmer when he has something like that to grab onto.

    >Like putting him in these one piece romper things.

    >Am running in a 5k race this coming weekend, but I haven’t run that far yet. I think I can do it though.

    >Finally got some quilt batting, and some supplies for another project I’m excited about.

    >Went through clothes that my mom had saved from when my brothers and I were little. Some of them are so dorky, but it’s crazy how familiar they are. Some of them I took home for my kids which is pretty neat. :)

    >Think I need to acquire a camera separate from my iPhone.

    >Need to do another “day in the life” soon.

    >Remain grateful for what a calm, happy baby Liam is in general. I thought that since Meredith was such a good baby I was surely going to get a hard one next. With all of our other stresses over the last few months, I can’t imagine adding a colicky baby to that mix. He just goes with the flow and adds a lot of happiness to our lives.

    liam 4 months

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    Meredith at 4 months

  • let’s talk disposable diapers

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    When it comes to diapers, we are a hybrid family. My babies are in disposables (typically the ones they send home from the hospital) until they are 1-2 months old, and then I switch them to cloth. I’m not fanatical about the cloth thing though; if I don’t feel like doing the laundry or we are traveling, I don’t hesitate to use disposables again.

    Meredith wore cloth until the end of last year when we changed her back for several reasons: I was super pregnant and didn’t want to do laundry every day, the diapers she fit in were velcro and worn out, and most of her pants weren’t fitting her because of the added bulk. So now she is just going to be in disposables until she potty trains, which I hope is soon, but from the way things are going it will be another year. (Sigh.)

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    Liam switched to cloth about a month ago, and it’s going great so far, but I always make sure to have disposables on hand for him just in case. So we are pretty experienced with the whole diaper spectrum, is what I’m saying.

    I recently got the chance to team up with H-E-B to try out their brand of baby diapers. This is a Texas store, I believe, and it’s awesome. We do probably 90% of our shopping there because their prices are the best, they always have great deals and extra services, and so far I have loved all of their brand-specific products that I’ve tried. I’m happy to say that their baby diapers are no different! I tried them out on Liam over the weekend to give myself a break from laundry, and as you can see he was quite content wearing them.

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    So here are a few things you should know about these diapers: they are super thin – the thinnest I’ve seen, so compared to cloth Liam’s butt seemed so small! And the side wings are extra long so you feel like your baby is really covered, which is great for those of us with chubby babies. :) They are soft and hypoallergenic, lined with vitamins and aloe, which is cool. And they work great overnight! No leaks from my little dude, and no blowouts either! That’s always a positive, right?

    They are also more affordable than other options, which is why these are now our go-to brand of disposable diapers that we keep on hand as our cloth backup. So I’m wondering, if you have babies or toddlers what is your diaper philosophy? Are you passionate about one brand or another?

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