Category: personal

  • my favorite moments of every day

    fave moments : morning

    That first sip of coffee, when the whole house is dark except for the dim light in the reading room, and I settle into my chair and open my Bible.

    When Liam first wakes up and smiles over and over so wide that he can’t possibly look any happier to be alive, and I pick up his little body and marvel at the fact, once again, that he is here and he is mine.

    holding meredith

    The first time I hug Meredith in the morning and and how she is so warm and cuddly and wanting nothing but to hold me.

    Seeing David again after we’re both home from work, and just being home.

    favorite moments : daycare pickup

    When I pick up the kids from daycare, and Meredith runs to me with a huge smile saying, “Mommy, I be good!”

    Sitting down to dinner together, even when it’s crazy, and I look around at my little family and think this is such a good life.

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    Right before bed when David and I are reading books to Meredith with Liam in my lap, and she cuddles up next to me with her head on my shoulders.

    These moments don’t happen exactly like this each and every day, but most of the time they do, and each one of them is worth waking up for.

  • natural personal care products

    This post has been in the works for literally years, starting with way back when I decided to switch all my personal care products to natural versions. It’s been a super long process because first I used up what I had, and then whenever I would try a new brand if I didn’t love it I would still use it up before trying something new. Finally I’ve come to a place that I’m pretty happy with, although I’m sure I will still try new things (and update as I go).

    So as I’m choosing products what I think about is:

    1) Is it natural and safe? There are some brands that I trust (you’ll notice several) but I also use the Environmental Working Group’s Skin Deep cosmetics database. I try to choose products that are in the 0-2 range on their website, but in a couple cases I went with a 3 because I loved the product and it was just fragrance or something like that bumping it up. Also, not everything is in the database so then I have to check ingredients.

    2) What’s the price? There are some awesome natural products out there but they can get super expensive. I’m on a budget so I’ve been trying the cheapest stuff that fits my other criteria.

    3) Where can I get it? I know ordering stuff online is pretty easy but I like to be able to go to a physical store that is close by and pick something up if I need it. I get most of my stuff from Target, Whole Foods, HEB (a local grocery store), or Ulta.

    4) Does it work and how do I like it? This is where I evaluate the product for itself, how it works, do I like how it smells, do I have any problems with it, etc. It helps that I have normal skin with no special issues so most products work on me pretty well.

    Okay let’s get to it: this is what I’m using now!

    Face

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    CleanserAvalon Organics Vitamin C Renewal Cleansing Milk. This has been a favorite for years. It works well to remove eye makeup and I love the pump dispenser and citrus smell.

    Exfoliator : Mineral Fusion Facial Scrub. I use this about once a week. I used to be so bad about remembering it but then I started keeping it in the shower and it’s much easier to grab and use that way.

    MoisturizerAvalon Organics Lavender Luminosity Daily Moisturizer. I actually prefer the Vitamin C version because of the scent (I adore citrus), but the lavender has a better rating.

    Eye creamBareMinerals Firming Eye Cream. Do I notice a difference when I use eye cream? Not really yet, but I’m in my 30’s now so it’s pretty widely recommended. I admit that I skip it a lot though.

    Makeup

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    Facial sunscreen : Mineral Fusion Brush On Sun Defense. This is a little extra sun protection for everyday wear (i.e. when I’m mostly inside) since I have fair skin. I love how easy it is to apply. I’m still looking for a favorite stronger sunscreen for when I’m outdoors a lot.

    Foundation : BareMinerals Pressed Powder. (Mineral Fusion also has a good one, but I find the compact really hard to open.) I love mineral powder foundation because, as you can probably tell, I go really light on the makeup anyway and this evens out my skin tone while still looking natural. I’ve tried the loose powder version and it’s just a little too messy for my liking.

    Blush : BareMinerals READY. I think I try a new color every time I get one and they’ve all been good. I use this lightly though. Again, the pressed version is just easier than the loose kind. I use this brush to apply it.

    Concealer : BareMinerals powder (and I use this brush to apply it). I don’t use this very often but it’s pretty effective in dealing with mild red spots and blemishes. I’m still on the hunt for a natural cream concealer for when I get a bad blemish.

    Mascara : Tarte Lights, Camera, Lashes!. I have tried SO many natural brands of mascara, hoping to find a cheaper one, but I keep coming back to this. From what I’ve tried, it’s the best all around.

    Hair, body, and miscellaneous

     

    hair and body collage

    Shampoo : For my kids I use The Honest Company (it’s in my favorite orange vanilla scent) and I use it sometimes as well. Most of the time I use Nature’s Gate (note the price in that link is for a pack of 4). It lasts a really long time.

    Conditioner : I don’t use conventional conditioner anymore, but I love the The Honest Company’s Conditioning Detangler spray. Smells and works great, and Meredith loves me to spray her hair too.

    Lip balm : I can’t stand dry lips. I’ve actually found that Lanolin – which I had on hand from breastfeeding but hardly ever needed for that purpose – works amazingly well for this, which makes sense. And I usually only need to apply it once a day. I also love Pacifica Lip Tint for a hint of color.

    Deodorant : I was so resistant to giving up my antiperspirant! I hate to sweat, but that stuff is so not good for our bodies. I tried several brands and so far my favorite is Kiss My Face Active Life. I have to be honest though, there was a big transition period where my body adjusted to operating without antiperspirant. I’ve gotten to a good place, but it’s been a combination of giving it time to adjust and getting used to sweating a little. If I work out, I’m still going to sweat. If I’m outside during the summer for long, I’ll still sweat. That’s the reality of going without antiperspirant. But at least I doesn’t smell bad. :)

    Toothpaste : I do like Tom’s of Maine and it was my go-to until I started having trouble finding this SLS-free version. (SLS is linked with mouth sores, which I deal with from time to time.) Some stores also only carry it in peppermint, which I hate. So I started ordering toothpaste from The Honest Company as well, and I think I’ll probably stick with that. I love their kids’ version too.

    By the way, if you can’t tell, I love The Honest Company. I used their diapers for Liam before we switched to cloth, and now I get their essentials bundle. It’s awesome because you don’t have to get it every month, but only when you want it. I usually order one every 3-4 months and get the stuff that I’ve run out of. If you want to try it, I’d be grateful if you used my referral link to sign up.

    body and misc collage

    Bar soap : Actually, the soap I use is handmade by the daughter of one of my patients. I’m obsessed with it. But since she doesn’t ship yet, I will also say that I tried and love Zum Bar as well.

    Body lotion : This is one product that I still want to experiment with, but I do like Kiss My Face Vitamin A & E Moisturizer. I really want to find a citrus scented lotion though. This one is kind of an almond/earthy/milky smell which is fine but not my favorite.

    Menstrual care : Getting real here for a minute! Thankfully I haven’t needed this much at all in the last several years (thanks kids!) but I switched to the DivaCup and never looked back. If you are curious about it I’d direct you to this blog post. I also switched to cloth pantyliners (mine are by Charlie Banana) for the light days when using the DivaCup isn’t necessary.

    Okay, whew! I think that’s pretty much everything I use! I know there are a lot of ways to make your own products as well, but I’m a working mama who would rather spend my spare time in other ways, and I’m dubious as to whether I could make anything that would compare to this. I do, however, want to make my own household cleaning products, and that’s my next venture!

    Please share with me if you have any natural products that you love, I want to try them!

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  • currently

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    snacking on dark chocolate covered almonds.

    limiting dairy in my diet because it makes me feel bloated.

    hoping it doesn’t rain tomorrow for Meredith’s birthday party in the park.

    keeping the party stuff simple.

    starting a new daily photography project involving my Instax.

    wishing for a digital camera other than my iPhone.

    itching to tweak my blog design.

    loving my morning Bible study time.

    evaluating our budget.

    planning my whole-life personal organization notebook.

    needing to dig deep for patience with the kids sometimes.

    missing one of the daycare teachers who I’d come to like, who just left to continue her schooling.

    enjoying the company of David’s aunt who is in town.

    taking Liam for his six-month checkup this afternoon.

    feeling energized and excited about the weekend.

  • the houston project

    the houston project

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    I was recently inspired by my friend Stephany to experience our hometown more fully. This project is fun for me on so many levels. I have already greatly enjoyed researching more about Houston, compiling recommendations, and making this list of goals. Checking them off will be awesome too, as they involve a mix of family adventures and new date night ideas. I plan to post monthly about it with a roundup of all the things we did. But for now, here is my list:

    Family Adventures

    1. Walk the Memorial Park loop and visit the Houston Arboretum

    2. Go to a Sugar Land Skeeters game

    3. Visit the Waterwall and Williams Tower observation deck

    4. Play at Discovery Green

    5. Go to Adickes Sculptorworkx to see the giant presidents’ heads

    6. Visit the Health Museum

    7. Go to the Katy Train Park

    8. Visit the Children’s Museum

    9.  Go to Oil Ranch

    10. Attend a Lakewood Church service

    11. Visit the Houston Aquarium

    12. Attend storytime at Brazos Bookstore

    13. Go to Hermann Park and ride the train and pedal boats

    14. Attend a Houston Polo Club match

    Date Nights

    15. See a new musician or band at the Mucky Duck

    16. Check out the Menil Collection and Rothko Chapel

    17. Go to the Showboat Drive-in Theatre

    18. Live music with dinner at House of Blues

    19. Explore Buffalo Bayou: ride bikes, take a boat ride, and see the bats

    20. Discovery Green Flea by Night

    21. Do a food truck crawl

    And Also…

    22. Try ten new independent restaurants (1/10) : Torchy’s Tacos

    Off we go! Have you ever done a project like this? For some reason, turning it into a challenge even makes the experiences themselves more fun. :)